Creating a fair custody arrangement can be uniquely challenging when parents live in different states. What should parents do to protect their connection with their child and ensure that they have the support they need?
Find out which state has jurisdiction
One of the first steps in an interstate custody case is figuring out which state has the power to make decisions about the custody. Usually, this is the state where the child has lived for the past six months. However, there are some exceptions to this rule. In these complex situations, it is crucial to consult with a legal expert who understands the nuances of child custody laws.
Communicate and collaborate if possible
While the divorce process can be stressful, it’s important for parents to keep their discussions respectful. Keeping the focus on what is best for the child can help parents find common ground and support the child’s wellbeing.
Talking clearly and working together are very important in any custody case. Interstate cases need even more planning because custody arrangements are more complicated. Co-parenting apps can help keep track of the child’s activities, medical needs, and school progress.
Prioritize your child’s wellbeing
In all custody cases, what is best for the child is what matters most. When parents live in different states, it is important to think about how the distance affects the child’s everyday life, school, social life and relationships with both parents. Choosing an option that makes life as normal as possible for the child is usually the best. This might mean setting up visits that are longer but happen less often with the parent who does not live with the child.
Consider all of your options
While living in different states can make it difficult for both parents to spend equal time with their child, it is still possible for both parents to maintain a strong connection with their child. This needs careful planning and flexibility from both parents.
Technology can also help a lot with sharing parenting duties. This can include video calls to stay in touch and digital calendars to keep track of the child’s schedule.
Custody issues can be especially challenging when parents live in different states. However, it’s possible for both parents to stay closely connected with their child and create a supportive environment that helps the child grow and be happy.